The original post was about a player leaving dishonorably from the game, in game terms. To take it off on some tangent rant about the "reality of war" is ignoring the reality of reality. The reality is that games are played for entertainment and enjoyment. The OP was merely complaining that their enjoyment of this game was being lessened by the actions of on of their opponents which, in GAME TERMS, was behaving dishonorably.