mjk1964 wrote:
instead of bothering about subjective experiences why don't you help me solving the problem

giving suggestions(consigli) and opinions and.......
mjk, usual tournaments rules we adopt on youplay
allow exit (from your side only of course) only if very low on fuel and/or badly damaged.
In all other situation you are considered as shoot down.
More specifically, you can exit only from your side of the map (left for allied and right for Germans) and if
a) with 3 or less points of fuel
or
b) with more then 50% of your total plane hit points damaged
or
c) with more then 75% of hit points in a single category (fuselage or wings or engine or tail) damaged.
or
d) with engine destroyed
or
e) with all of your guns destroyed
In another tournament variant even exiting under conditions from b) to e) cost you a half shot down
But
most important of all , as I told you before, to do something serious you should play
advanced matches, not standard ones.