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| City: | Wynne, Arkansas  | | Personal Data: | Male, born: November 26 1954 | | Membership | 21years 131days ago. | | Last Login | 3years 361days ago. | | Last Move | 3years 351days ago. | kduke is currently  | Send a mail to kduke |
| Message header | Area/Game: | General | | Topic: | Site-maintenance and Administration | | Subject: | Re: Sorry: some messages deleted (again) | | Posted by: | kduke  - 20years 153days ago. |
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It's not that simple. I talked with spinabros via email, and in my opinion he doesn't deserve all this. At least not anymore.
I think he is more than ready and willing to be accepted as a member of this community, and marking him forever with a "scarlet letter" is not the right solution.
And what was the result of your conversation with him?
What did he admit to? What is he going to do differently in the future?
I don't deny he is "ready and willing to be accepted." Clearly he wants acceptance. More than that, he wants "admiration" for his "accomplishments." And there is the problem.
Give him a break.
Tell he what he said and what he is going to do that convinces you he deserves a "break."
All I have seen is denials and the evidence against him is overwhelming.
So more denials do not cut it for me.
You have not to play with him if you don't want to do it, but you could try anyway, just to see if now he's able to make you change your opinion 
He will have to "change my opinion" before I will play with him.
I have seen nothing so far aside from denials and bluster and nasty comments.
Beside the spinabros case, I'm not saying that all of you have to accept supinely a cheater if you encounter one. I'm simply saying that it's much better if you contact us instead of posting his name on the forum.
And what will you do?
We are as motivated as you are to make this site a good place where to play, and we have many more possibilities to contact those people to inform them that someone doesn't like the way they are playing/cheating/whatever.
I'm not saying this is the ultimate solution to this matter, but trying this way won't be hurting anyone's feelings.
Thanks for your comprehension
I comprehend as best I can.
I comprehend better when I know the whole story. "We've talked to him. He wants to be accepted back into the community" is just not enough, in my opinion.
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