That would not really be a solution for me. I usually log in at least twice a day, but it may happen (three or four times a year) that I will not be able to move for a week...
The point is: I don't mind if my games are slow, as long as it is because the other players have a life. When the other players do
not have a life (they make 200 moves per day) but they only play in some games, and ignore mine... I think that in that case it is really poor etiquette. That is all

I am a person who has reached nearly 200 games a once. The problem is not that they are intentionally ignoring your game. When you make a move the next game is automatically loaded. This is the source of the problem. The highest priority for next game is the game in which it has become your turn most recently. So if other players are on line making moves in the games you have cleared those games are jumping to the front again.